The 'breeding of the fittest"? Richard–this game or whatever you describe deeply disturbs me. Eugenics creeps me out. >:(
Who says what makes one fittest? This represents the ultimate domination of cultural memes over actual living flesh–us.
Anybody seen the movie Gattaca? I love the sci fi that asks the juiciest (scariest)questions. The premise: in some future world the tyrannical powers have taken away our one of our most treasured gifts, in my view, “random” collaboration with the universe. Parents must plan out all children with the blessing of the DNA police.
The movie’s tagline: “There is no gene for the human spirit”. I think people would turn into flavorless hothouse tomatoes, idiotic yappy inbred fancy-pants twinkie-brain dogs with no wits. . . oh jeez, has it started already? 
On another note, the other day someone told me about a book, Survival of the Sickest. At first glance, it sounds goofy to me, but I don’t know much about that one yet, just throwing it out there. Anybody read it?
[sorry, tangent, please follow detour signs back to the meat of the thread]
When neither flight nor fight is possible (almost all situations in civilization) then we get stuck in a “freeze” response, and so we walk around like zombies. Perhaps you are struggling with some freeze or frozen fight charge in your nervous system? I think it was Tom Brown Jr. who said a warrior is the last to pick up the lance, violence as a last resort for protection of the tribe. I always consider any kind of coercion - including violence - a failure … sometimes necessary but always a failure that the underlying threats and conflicts couldn’t be worked out. But that doesn’t mean that the “fight” - or rage and anger of being hemmed in and violated isn’t real and doesn’t need an outlet.