If you have a community with 10 women and 1 man, there will be another generation. But if you have 1 woman and 10 men, maybe not. Biologically, men are much more expendable than women. Because of that, men have generally been put to the more dangerous and lethal tasks. Men tend to do more of the hunting, and if there’s a battle to be fought, it generally falls to the men. This shows in evolution; men tend to be bigger and stronger. The parts of the brain relating to empathy, communication, and the skills needed to keep the group together tend to be stronger in women. They tend to be put to the safer, more essential tasks like gathering.
That said, tribal societies are egalitarian. They don’t tolerate -archies; patriarchies, matriarchies, or any other kind. Primitive societies did have differences in gender roles, but the oppressive gender typing of civilization is a product of agriculture, which moved men and women from co-equal roles, to men inhabiting all the important positions, and women locked away at home.
Its human nature for men to fight for territory and to perpetuate their clan.
Hunter-gatherers don’t fight for territory, though. Only farmers have a need to expand or to protect land that they’ve invested labor into.
In many ways though civilized society gives more power to women and oppresses men more. Because in civlized society there is only room for so many independant proud men. Most men are slaves to people with power over them and are unable to act independantly.
Yes, and the women are slaves even to them. But there are some men higher up who do have some power. There are only very rarely women in such positions. Civilization has hurt us all, but you’ve got to be blind to think that it’s hurt both genders equally, and insane to think that it’s hurt men more.
I think urban gangs are one place where natural male behavior achieves expression. In a lot of ways this is perhaps disturbing. But you have to wonder why "gangsta rap" so resonates with young males all over the world.
Once upon a time, because it was a voice of resistance. This isn’t any kind of natural expression, any more than the violence in a prison yard is a natural expression. This is what happens when you put humans in a pathological situation.
Why is it that within the "primitivist" community so many people want to go back to the way things were and don't show much intrest in moving forward, out of civilization, and into exactly what may work best for them.
Because that’s what worked. Are you familiar with “Sankofa”? It’s an Akan (West African) term meaning, “It is not forbidden to go back and get what you lost.” The only way to move forward is to take a step back.
Exactly, I think it's best to dispense with the sociobiological rhetoric of "natural men's roles "and "natural women's roles," "basic wiring", "memes" and "genes telling us to be warriors, "winners and losers", and other discredited notions, and get on with the task of creating free and egalitarian communities.
Granted, most of Ted’s argument is a bunch of washed-up, pseudo-scientific hogwash that was discredited a hundred years ago, but at the same time, a working community will have to come to terms with the fact that men and women are not the same. From how far gone we are now, it may look like gender-bending anarchy, but working societies do have notions of what it means to be a Man, and what it means to be a Woman. And they’ll very often have third, fourth, even fifth genders, and what it means to be one of them.
If we look at history and archeological evidence,we find that every tribal group varies from place to place.
Varying climates,and habitats affected mens and womens roles in life.
What is considered a mans role in one tribe,may not matter in another,
or vice versa.
Many roles were shared.
Absolutely true. My first statement was a generalization, but there’s plenty of variation.
The roles thing is taking it too far. Gender is taking things too far for that matter. It isn't the unchangeable necessity people assume it to be. If someone wants to have it in their society then they might go and do that. I'd personally avoid them though. The memetic and genetic concepts however do help to explain human behavior.
I disagree. Every working society has concepts of gender. They don’t need to be iron-clad, and you don’t need to punish those who cross those lines, but guidelines of what it means to be Man, Woman, or any other gender is important. It’s one of a culture’s most important functions: adapting biological realities to a particular ecology. To ignore gender is to ignore far too essential an element of human existence.
That said, having a concept of gender doesn’t mean you have to have just two genders, or that people who cross genders must be “bad.” They can be loosely defined or strictly enforced; you can find examples of anything from 2 to 5 genders. The important point is that you really do need to have some notion of gender for a society to really work. There’s a biological reality there that’s simply too big to ignore.
An alpha male/female (but please, don't get worked up over this 'alpha' word.. in the sense I see it as is not the sense most people do, though it can often be this way..) this alpha pair would be the breeding male/female (or parents) in the tribe.
See also http://anthropik.com/2006/11/alpha-dogs-wolf-packs-the-wandering-free-families/
The social hierarchies of alphas, betas and omegas were observed in captivity: “It is a bit like observing only the inmates of prisons when you are trying to understand human society, then extrapolating your findings to free-living people.” When Mech observed wild wolf packs, he never saw any of the dominance displays so common among captive wolf packs. The wild wolf pack, like the wild human tribe, is a family. Human tribes are multi-generational, so they have some better mechanics for inter-generational egalitarianism, so there isn’t even that kind of watered-down, not-really “alpha,” but as Mech says, “calling a wolf an alpha is usually no more appropriate than referring to a human parent or a doe deer as an alpha. Any parent is dominant to its young offspring, so ‘alpha’ adds no information. Why not refer to an alpha female as the female parent, the breeding female, the matriarch, or simply the mother? Such a designation emphasizes not the animal’s dominant status, which is trivial information, but its role as pack progenitor, which is critical information.” We’re not talking about dominance hierarchies; we’re talking about families.
It would be safe to assume most decisions would be made by these two together, and if children are about I would think the woman may have even more 'power'.
It’s hard to get inside a wolf’s head, but certainly among human tribes this is not the case. Even small children have as much say as the most respected elder. Take a look at Sorenson’s “Preconquest Consciousness”
Tribes generally consist of more than one family and tend to have less hierarchy in decision making than the much smaller group of wolves. Humans might have "leaders" in the sense of personalities that have more charisma or more weight to their suggestions or more status within the tribe, but we don't have the alpha/beta/omega relationships to the same degree that wolves do.
Wolves don’t have the alpha/beta/omega relationships.
But a wolf pack is remade from one generation to the next, whereas bands are more ad hoc, and tribes are multi-generational. Then again, nuclear families (which operate very much like wolf packs) form up bands, which fuse and fission often and easily, so you could say that band-level society is made up of various alliances of human families that are each quite analogous to wolf packs.
Not to mention the whole only-alphas-get-to-breed thing.
In a regular wolf pack, the “alphas” are the parents. So yes, they’re the only ones who get to breed, which is the same as human societies. We also discourage you from fucking your mom. When wolf cubs grow up, they become the “alphas” of their own packs, i.e., they move out and start their own families, rather than trying to bang mom.