[quote=“heyvictor, post:13, topic:1095”]From your original post, I understood you to be talking about drugs like marijuana, psychedelics, mood/mind altering substances, alcohol and possibly tobacco.
So that’s what I’m thinking of.
Some of these drugs are escape hatches but not an escape to mostly an escape from. So what they do for us is more likely to keep us where we are, just a bit more numb.
I think psychedelics in particular but sometimes other drugs can give us a glimpse of a possibility. Some of us spend years chasing that glimpse through continued use of the drugs.
I try to be present. I try to do things with intent. Personally, for me it would be stretching it a bit to call some of these things “medicineâ€Â. For others, if we are to have a relationship with them as medicine, then we have to really participate in the relationship in that way. The idea of “using†has to go and a relationship has to be entered into. A relationship involves commitment and responsibility and reciprocity.
If you approach medicine with respect and present yourself in service to the medicine; If you are clear about what you are asking the medicine to do; If you commit yourself to follow through with the work that the medicine calls you to do; the world can open up for you. Amazing things can happen.
This applies to all medicine, including the kind that Dan is referring to and even the pharmaceutical kind. Could be peyote, or tobacco, or a song, or an experience, or a place, or a tree or an animal or a food, or a plant, or a ceremony or possibly even a prescription drug.[/quote]
Thanks, heyvictor. that really cleared some questions up for me.
This is something that’s tricky for me to explain but I’ll give it a shot and try to restate my original question:
Recently, I’ve been put in situations where I had the option to use psycho actives but declined because I wasn’t sure how to use them, much less why I would want to use them or if I was ready for them. I smoke marijuana every now and then, so I began to question myself about that too. if i’m going to question eating shrooms or doing acid, why don’t I question smoking weed? why would I use these things, and is the basis for my use, the reason why i smoke weed for example, a healthy reason? and is there a healthy reason why anyone would enter into a relationship with a substances at all, especially without knowing exactly what they’re trying to get out of that experience? if i’m not sure what i want out of an experience, other than just to experience a cool trip or get high, why would i engage in it? But then how would i know that i’d want to use a specific substance if i don’t know what it has to offer?
but as you said (or from what i gathered), having a relationship with these things is the same as having a relationship with anything else. the usefulness of whatever it is depends on how clear you are on what you are asking it to do and if you commit to doing what it tells you to do.
my question is, how do you know what to ask?
augh. my thoughts are all over the place on this and not very organised.