Well hello. My name’s Nathan, and a couple days ago I stumbled upon this forum. I’ve always been somewhat against the way we run our lives in today’s modern civilization, and it’s only recently that I’ve begun to actually research my beliefs. From what I’ve read thus far, I would have to say that the closest match to my personal beliefs would be anarcho-primivitism. I’m still in the process of figuring out which aspects truly pertain to me, but at least I know I’m in the right ballpark.
Until recently, I had never actually sat down and thought about how I feel with regards to where my life is headed. Now that I have, I can say two things. First, I am extremely relieved that I’m not alone with my crazy ideals about molding my life based on centuries-old culture (at least in North America). Secondly, though I am overjoyed to see that there is a chance of bettering my future, I’m also terrified of the path that lies ahead.
As others would point out, I really DO want to “run off and live in the woods”. Lately, my depression has been getting worse. I just quit my job, and I honestly don’t believe I can start another. I can’t spend my days doing something that is as unimportant and pathetic as feeding into an economy and society that I don’t want to be a part of. The last week has been pretty difficult for me; I have shunned everyone I know, because they don’t have a clue where I’m coming from. All they see is the stereotypical depressed guy who should be on anti-depressants. It’s entirely sad that people think drugs are the answer to “curing” the fact that modern civilization is a joke.
I have had a couple people go so far as to tell me that, living in a capitalist society (I’m in Canada by the way), I just have to “suck it up and deal with it”. Again, it’s sad to see that people KNOW that our lives don’t work, but they succumb to the idea that we “have to do what we have to do” to earn our way through life. I do tend to wonder if I’m the only person who gets frustrated at things like the simple fact that junk food and soft drinks exist. Basically, the almighty dollar has pushed me into a corner against every other person who believes money is a positive thing. And that puts me up against a LOT of people.
What tears me apart is I know what I need to be happy, but I’m not sure it’s possible. I really do want to run off into the woods tomorrow, but how can I manage that? All land is owned; the best I can do is trek deep enough into the mountains and hope nobody finds me. Then there’s the fact that I am not rewilded - how am I supposed to survive without the proper skill set? Even if I could find someone to teach me, I don’t have the money to pay them to do so. This is one thing I have a hard time believing… there are people willing to teach the ways of non-capitalist survival, yet they charge money for their lessons. I guess that’s what happens when it is legally impossible to live for free in your country… even those who don’t believe in it have to pay their rent.
So, I no longer have a job. I can’t see myself being gainfully employed again anytime soon. I have my apartment until the end of July, at which point I will be homeless and quite literally on the streets. I am not the type who will roam the streets begging for change - I can’t even stand the idea. I would rather starve until rushed to hospital on an IV. I honestly believe I’m at the point where I need to get out of the city and into a natural environment. My spirit was not intended to be crowded with thousands of other people in a society full of inhumane humans.
Any advice, especially about the crazy idea of tucking myself away into a mountain without the knowledge necessary to sustain myself? Are there any settlement-type places where a person can simply move to and join a group of like-minded people? I’m interested in hearing how other people have managed not to go totally crazy trying to fulfil this near-impossible dream of living the natural life you were meant to live. Most importantly, is it physically possible (in North America) to truly segregate yourself from mainstream society and begin living the life of a primitivist? Does everything you do to survive wind up being illegal according to the authorities?
Sorry for such the long blurb… there’s just so much I could say at this point in my life. I tried to keep out most of the negative bashing of today’s world. :-\