No worries, man, I’m not offended or anything. I don’t want to dismiss any of those things (TV, WoW, MySpace, etc) as items of pacification, but I do think we should shy away from thinking of them only as items of pacification. What’s more, I think we should try to get a better handle on the entire concept of pacification, my gut intuition suggests that there’s a lot being left out in the current discussion. I think we’re focusing on the superficial details and ignoring the underlying forces. Maybe we can find some useful bit of understanding if we dig a bit deeper.
I do agree with you that real friendships/relationships hold up much better to these sorts of technologies when the relationship exists prior to texting, WoW, MySpace, whatever… At least it seems that way to me.